My gorgeous little Aria Rae, you are almost 2 years old and you have already learnt so much; how to walk and run, jump and climb and you certainly know how to talk, our (sometimes cryptic) conversations are my best! I know that as you get older, you will have so many more things to learn – harsh life lessons and oh how I wish that I could protect from those! I’ve had my fair share of hard blows handed me by life and I leant so much from those trying times. I hope that by me sharing just a few of these, it will make your life even just a tiny bit easier.
Be your own whole person: I remember feeling like I wasn’t enough, less than, and sometimes that being in a relationship would complete me. I can’t quite remember when the lights went on, but the day that I realised that I was enough, my life changed; my confidence soared and I was a much happier person. There is nothing holding you back in life except for your own self doubt my darling girl. Speak to yourself, ingrain it into your mind: you are enough and you are more than capable.
Nourish your love for reading: Oh how I wish that I could be like you or your Dad, you devour books the same way that I launch into a cheese burger. Keep reading, keep learning my baby, it can only set you in good stead. When you start reading for yourself, I hope that you let your imagination go wild, and when you have to start reading for school, allow your brain to soak up all that knowledge like a sponge.
Taking risks is great, but do so carefully: Every now and again we need to take a leap of faith and I want you to take those risks with confidence, but I also want you to know when it’s not worth taking a risk. This is a learned skill and I hope with all my might that you won’t have to get burnt too badly to learn this lesson.
Be kind: If I fail at teaching you everything else, I hope that I teach you to be kind. There really isn’t anything more to say about this, except that I know it is one of the keys to living a happy and fulfilled life.
Life is full of twists and turns, ups and downs but wherever it takes you, my love for you is unconditional, my beautiful baby girl.
Love, your mama
If you have fallen in love with the shirts that Aria and I are wearing, they are from Peony & Pea, a proudly South African clothing company. The quality is incredible, as is the fit. I have a discount code for you to receive 10% off on top of the current 20% sale, simply use the code M&MFOLLOWER when you order. If you’d like to read more about this matching set, check my Facebook and Instagram posts.
The code is valid until 26 Januray 2018 and is only applicable to the “Blossoming Mama, Budding Babe” set.